Although he denies it, I have read all through the text conversations they have had that proves it to be true and I have seen the ads of her soliciting sex with my own eyes. Accepting. Non-critical. Sometimes, there is no way to save your loved one from his mistakes (and life is for learning and one tends to learn best through making mistakes). Required fields are marked *. He might like that his girlfriend gets you riled up. is it normal for mothers to get jealous and mistreat the girlfriend, even though I've never disrespected their rules and wants for their son? Youre his mom and that doesnt mean you can be his gf or wife. But shrug your shoulders and say, "It's your life. What d you do in this case ? And now that he is lying to me and looks like he's protecting her from me, I feel so betrayed! These people love him because he gives them everything they want. Do you dislike the person your child is dating? Just keep singing the praises of your fianc, perhaps even drawing some analogies between her and your mother. What are their reasons? I feel for you because sometimes it isn't our fault at all but what is going on in their own heads. Whatever you do, don't meet this girl's bad behavior with more bad behavior. If you continue to "keep away" from them, they will blame her for that so try not to stay away. My girlfriend does not live with me either as she is studying at a distant college. There is more negative conversation than positive. Is your theme custom made or did you download it from somewhere? It takes courage and strength to do the right thing by breaking up now. We painted a picture of what family life with her as a wife and mother of his children would be like. Practical Tips & Advice For Everyday Parenting. My girlfriend's son makes it clear he doesn't like me and my son A 16-year-old girl with those types of problems most likely has moved on to another guy while your son is in detention center. It will drive him away like it did with us. She translates your disapproval of the relationship as a rejection of her. The Debater. His world will no longer revolve around her family's when you open your world up to include her. What kind of life is that? She has always made up some excuse except when Christmas camethen she wanted to go to the big family Christmas gathering. We do try and invite them all the time, but there is always an excuse as to why he can't make it. He chose a young girl over his own family knowing she disrespected me. Fast forward 4 years.he is dating her again and considering moving in with herughhh! Before you act on any of this, I suggest you speak with a family court representative or attorney to see what your rights, as a grandparent, are.