Im losing my mind, I have the same problem with my 40 year old son its close to emotional abuse i dread him coming into the living room Im always in tears if i dont agree with him. Spent it on your other grandkids. My son is a drug addicted con artist and a narcissist. Cuss calling us name. From around the age of 20 or so it was minor and dealing with him was not too much of an inconvenience. A new study finds that 95 percent of late-onset ADHD cases arent ADHD. Once you understand the behaviors that result from your upbringing, you can decide to learn many of the relationship skills that a narcissistic parent never modeled. I have 5. I feel yr pain. I wish I could get involved with a support group for people like us. Hes irresponsible and cruel. There is debate about what exactly emotions are, and how many of them people have. Oftentimes, the only surefire method in dealing with a narcissistic adult child is cutting off contact. felt like a stab in the heart. Oh and there are two grandchildren that I know they will keep away. I am still in the grips of what destroys every piece of rest I seek. Codependency can be overcome, but so far, we have no documented cases of anyone being cured of narcissism. This went on as a teenager she began bullying me, to make me seem weaker and her more powerful, she had the same dominating personality as her father. 1. Adult children who are narcissists - YouTube Most people are aghast when this seemingly selfish act is suggested wanting instinctively, to put their infants safety first. Ill be 60 on my birthday and the best gift I will receive is from myself and that is to create an environment where I will never be mistreated by anyone ever again. Friends will tug at one destination for so. but I I give up with her, im not going to fight for her love anymore it hurts to much. The outcome for you is what you must think of. But asking challenging questions will reveal you have so much to offer the world. Ive had to block her on social media. She is constantly seeking validation online, and shes always posting selfies with duck face. Everything is me, me, me. Children and teens are struggling with mental health issues at high levels. The rise of the narcissistic mother comes during a time when, for the past 4 decades, the average working mother spends more time with her children than stay-at-home moms did in the supposed halcyon days of the 1960s' middle class, before "parenting" was a common term. Enjoy life and have some fun it sure goes by fast! Just like his father who I had to divorce when he was only one.