endstream endobj 840 0 obj <>stream Victims of domestic violence should consider contacting a hotline when their partner isn't home to avoid aggressive or controlling behaviors. To keep my telephone communications confidential, I must either use coins or I might get a friend to permit me to use their telephone credit card for a limited time when I first leave. The tool enables practitioners toassess the level of risks tochildren from male and femaledomestic abuse. Partners and ex-partners, close family members, extended relatives, and family friends are all included. uZ )y{9tC"uml`$/=8oKIe$B`K]hmMG""tORI[.v7w\02Ae:*@PjYGIGn1bBO <> I can call the local domestic violence program if I am not sure about B, C, or D above or if I have some problem with my protection order. The person on the receiving end is being abused. In: Ferri's Clinical Advisor 2022. https://www.clinicalkey.com. https://nnedv.org/content/internet-computer-safety/. <> Mental health consequences of intimate partner abuse: A multidimensional assessment of four different forms of abuse. Review the contents of the worksheet with your client. 1-866-324-5553 TTY, 2023 Illinois Department of Human Services, Silent Treatment, Insulting Jokes, Insults, Ignore feelings, jealousy, blaming / accusations, isolation, monitoring activities, humiliation, threats, harming pets, degradation, calls you 'crazy' 'drunk or 'junkie', homicide/suicide, scratch, deny physical needs, slap, bite, push, force drug use, hit, punch, target hit, throw objects, kick, choke hold or strangle, burn, beat, sleep deprivation, poison, weapon use, disablement / disfigurement, murder, embarrassing comments, sexual jokes, unwanted touching, ignore sexual needs, treat like sex object 13th step, forced to look at pornography, withhold sex as punishment, sex as duty, demand monogamy when abuser is promiscuous, control forced contraceptives, forced prostitution for drugs, sex after violence, forced sex soon after pregnancy, rape, death, uses gender myths / roles, degrades culture, religion, gender, profession, recovery from substance abuse, etc., destroys property, controls major decisions, demonstration of strength, controls money or finances, denies access to work, threats to victim's family/friends, eliminates support system including access to health care or substance abuse treatment, complete isolation, child abuse/incest, convinces victims they are hysterical/paranoid/suicidal, suicide, Domestic & Sexual Violence Prevention Manuals, Safety and Sobriety Manual - January 2005, Victim feels the need to keep the abuser calm, Victim feels like they are walking on egg shells, Abuser may promise it will never happen again, Abuser may blame the victim for causing the abuse, Abuser may deny abuse took place or say it was not as bad as the victim claims, Abuser acts like the abuse never happened, Promises made during 'making-up' may be met.