DEAR ABBY: Our 47-year-old son remarried two years ago. Or maybe something else is triggering your jealousy like you feeling like you're becoming more distant with that person lately and you ultimately want to talk about that. Same here I m sick of this situation as I am 4month pregnant and my husband is talking behind my back to his sister about us everything and his ex also. I have heard her slag me off to him. NIGHT OF OPEN HEAVEN (22ND APRIL, 2023) - Facebook I dont get the sense from you that his relationship with his sister is a marital deal-breaker for you. But telling yourself not to think only sends your mind wandering, activating all kinds of . #12 Talk To His Sister . That said, if your husband is spending too much time with friends, you may feel resented or neglected. 210K views, 25K likes, 8.6K loves, 132K comments, 25K shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Zion Prayer Movement Outreach: NIGHT OF OPEN HEAVEN (22ND APRIL,. A degree of jealousy can be a useful reminder that you shouldnt take a loved one or friend for granted, explains Daniel Freeman, PhD, professor of clinical psychology at University of Oxford, who has researched mental health topics including delusions and paranoia. They freeze in response to loud voices and anger. I dont just mean the odd where are my keys? comment we actually often engage in deep, transcendental conversations at 3am with nobody else but our own thoughts to answer back. I asked him not to discuss my concerns with her. Focusing on your relationship with that person helps you address whatever might be wrong, rather than cycling into a downward spiral of blame and hurt feelings. Don't ever expect a narcissist to defend you even when a family member mistreats you. At the same time, you are being unfair to your new partner by reminding them that they are not special. We gave 28 participants a set of written instructions, and asked to read them either silently or out loud. You get to say here and now what you would like from him. He definitely doesnt enjoy talking to her, shes the one that initiates and its always about DD. My husband is prioritizing his "innocent" friendship with a woman over Dear Abby: When I need him most, best friend loses interest in me, Dear Abby: My trip with Dad will be excruciating if he brings his girlfriend, Dear Abby: Red flags go up as younger man romances widow, The Edgar haircut is one more thing kids, parents can disagree on, Charges filed in stabbing of Loop Target employee, 7 big questions facing Bears after NFL Draft, Hollywood writers, slamming gig economy, vote to go on strike, Treasurys Yellen says U.S. could default as soon as June 1, First Republic Bank seized, sold in fire sale to JPMorgan. Another way an angry husband expresses himself is through constant criticism of his wife. How many people have you slept with in your life?? 6. Yes, even I face the same situation. My husband and his mom talk everyday if not every other day. You said this feels like an emotional affair, and I can understand how you would feel this way. I have promised myself saying "i will not allow anyone to take my happiness away ".